Learn to identify the Fake people around you.

We humans are Social animals and we hate being left alone, that is basically why we make friends.

we surround ourselves with people who seem to be just like us, but what if the person is not actually what we think they are. fake friends is what they are normally called and everyone has almost 90% fake friends and 10% real friends in their life

what if you are surrounded by fake peoples and fake friends and you avoid the good ones ?

in this article this is exactly what I'm going to talk about , so read as i talk to you.

                                     

Why to identify fake friends ?

None in this world likes to be left alone, everyone likes having people they can talk to and enjoy their life with. and sometimes amidst this Social hunger we fail to identify if the person whom we call our friend is actually our friend or not.

lets take it like this , 

Life works on a basic law - 

The law of progress and improvement in the state of living of a person or rather an "individual". or in simple words , the law of evolution.

we at different phases of our life find ourself thrown in a room packed with a certain number of people going through the same phase of their life. whom we interact with or whom we take ahead with us is totally dependent on our very own choices. 

but what if the person that we interact with is actually not good for our progress in life ? what if the person is just using us and wasting our time to pass his own time? what if you are wasting your time with them ?

In the friendship context , life says that if your friend progresses in life and you don't then you will be left out and your friend will evolve for good in life and vice-versa. 

that is why we should always surround ourself with real people or real friends because they are the ones who actually want to make progress in life along with you.

How to identify Fake friends ?

It is always better to identify fake people than searching for fake people quotes later.

I'm going to start with the most important point first.

Body Language

It is true that we talk less with our mind-mouth and more with our body. 

70% of our conversations are done through our body language and behaviour , this is exactly how we can identify the behaviour of fake friends.

1. Behaviour in presence of 3rd person 

• Fake friends spit sugar through their words when they are with you , however around a number of people they drag your personality image down through those very own words as fake friends never wants you to be the Center of attraction in a group of friends rather they want it to be themselves.
• while Real friends may be Harsh or insulting to you when they are with you but they will never disrespect you in front of a 3rd person as Real friends accept you like their siblings and think that its only their sole right to insult you or disrespect you while others should respect you and your friendship.

2. Jealousy 

A fake person may congratulate you on your success and achievements but their body language and expressions always through out a negative vibe for you as they are always jealous of you.

3. Importance Factor

A fake friend will always be there for you whenever you call them to waste time and party , they will always be there with you in your happy and jolly times. however if you call them up for some help , they always manage to give excuses. 

While 

A Real friend may not be necessarily there to be a part of your happy time but they will surely be a part of your Sad times and will always be available to help you out in any situation.

4. Weak point exploitations

A fake friends always searches for points to keep you under a blackmailed pressure by talking bad about someone to you and then memorise your opinion about the same person to later indulge you in an un-necessary fight or situation just to play with your mental health.

5. Social butterflies

Most of the fake peoples are social butterflies , they tend to become friends with everyone they know , basically they stay sugar packed for everyone. while a real person does not worry about the quantity of their connections rather the quality of them.

IN THE END , 

AVOID fake friends , don't be always available for them. build your dignity in their eyes by being a healthy part of their bad times.  Always keep smiling as it hurts them a lot.

There are numerous points of a fake person but I have shared with you the ones I personally use to test a person and their purpose in my life. 

Friendship is a beautiful gift and we should embrace it , but with the right ones. we should always avoid people who want to use us for their good. Life is too short to be alone as I always say. 

Meet you soon 

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